Here are a few tips that will instantly

help you become more successful with women and dating

 

1. Be a challenge. Most women won't ever verbalize it, but they respond very strongly to a challenge from a man, if her interest in you is 51% or above.
   
   
   • When it is below fifty percent, women are generally indifferent to you, and being a challenge will actually hurt you.

   • So what do I mean by challenge? Well, first off if she's a looker, she is used to guys basically throwing themselves at her. She already has guys calling and texting all the time, buying her things, and bragging about their possessions. The best advice I can give you to make you stand out from the other billion men that are after her is to give her a challenge. It's rare for her to have to work to get a man, and she will find having to work to get you incredibly refreshing. Men worry if they do this they will lose the girl of their dreams, but don't worry, you won't. You have a better chance of losing her by smothering her with attention.




2. Phone. Always be the first one to end the phone conversation and always end it on a high note.




3. Don't drop everything you’re doing or cancel your plans with friends and family every time she says, 'Hey, I want to see you'. Telling her that you are busy, but maybe tomorrow, is much more attractive to her. Limit the amount of time you spend with her - no more than two times a week during the first month.




4. Don't' think that buying her gifts and taking her to expensive restaurants will make her fall for you. If anything, it will drive her away. . Women fall in love for a guy because of the way they feel when they're around you. The effect, you're personality has on her the range of exciting and passionate emotions you give her. The physical chemistry that grows as she gets to know you better. This is what causes sparks attraction and eventually leads to love not what you can buy her or where you can take her. The only thing buying her things will do is show her that you're insecure saying I'm not good enough so like me for what I can give you and feel free to use me I'm your new ATM machine.




5. Stay away from the romantic stuff like flowers, , gifts, love letters, or fancy dinners until after at least the first few weeks. And when you finally do these things, they should be peppered into the relationship given randomly and on special occasions. Then, she will appreciate you and anything you do or give to her much more.




6. If she's acting bratty while you've been reasonable and have tried to show her a good time on a date, call her out on her behavior in a playful way, while getting your point across. If she continues to act in a whiny manner, take her home.


7. If she cancels a date more than twice, jokingly tell her she has a lot of making up to do. Now, she has to take you out to dinner or no deal. If her interest level is higher than fifty-one percent, she will do it. Wouldn't you? The three strike rule works well. Remember gentlemen, when a woman's interest level is above fifty percent, she makes it easy for you to see her. Women will only make it difficult if they are barley interested in you, or are waiting for something better to come along. Ask yourself, when you like a woman, do you cancel on her? I didn't think so.




8. Be a leader. Women are incredibly attracted to confidence. It draws them like bees to sweet honey. Leading is a behavior that shows your confidence.



9. When you first meet a woman and it's time to ask her out on a date, you should not call her and say, 'Hi, MaryJoe, can I take you out tonight? Where would you like to go?'. Most women hate this; it puts pressure on them and they are afraid to make the wrong choice. The next thing you know, she'll be telling you she's sorry, but she can't make it; something came up. They would prefer for the man to surprise them. How do you show her that you're a confident man and a natural leader? Be a man's man. Call her and say, "Hey, MaryJoe. I know this great Italian place. Dress nice. I'll pick you up at 8:00PM. The food's great and after that we'll go on a mini-adventure and grab some ice cream.



 

10. Make her feel safe, like she's walking on clouds by opening and closing the doors for her. Put your arm around her for a minute or two while telling her a funny story and take her hand when crossing the , like she's walking on clouds by opening and closing the doors for her. Put your arm around her for a minute or two while telling her a funny story and take her hand when crossing the street. .




11. Have fun by telling her to give you a kiss on the cheek, and when she does, quickly turn your head towards hers and when her peck lands on your lips accuse her of moving too fast. It's fun and this is flirting at its finest. Trust me, it's fun!
    All of these things display confidence and she will look up to you for it. If you respect yourself and hold yourself in high-esteem, she will realize that she has been waiting for a man like you to come along.
    Being fun and playful will make her melt. Some guys seem to think that they have to be stand-up comedians to make the woman laugh and to be attractive to women. It is not true. In fact, if you're not naturally funny, it's okay. As long as you show her that you can be playful, when the time is right, this will be just as powerful. What you need to do when first dating a women is stay away from heavy stuff for at least the first four or five dates. Don't ask about ex-boyfriends or bring up topics like death or politics.
    
    
    
12. Bring up memories that will make her happy when she thinks about them, like the time she went to Disneyland or to the Bahamas. She will then link up these positive emotions and experiences to her time spent with you.




13. Date ideas.
    • Take her to a chocolate factory or some sort of sweet shop and hand feed her chocolate dipped strawberries. If you feel the vibe, and chemistry, make a move.
    
    
    
    • Take her to play laser tag or a game of air hockey and actually try to beat her! Make it fun. Bet a coke on it or something to spice it up and she'll love you for being different. Yes, this seems childish and you might be thinking, 'don't women prefer romantic dinners?' Yes, you are right, but not right away. It's best to keep it light and fluffy at first. I f you tend to get nervous or tongue tied, do something that requires physical activity that can take some of the pressure of you from having to sit across from each other and 'talk'.
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14. Be a little mysterious. Women in general are natural screeners and are generally much more selective than men on who they will date…and sleep with. Women generally follow their gut instincts. Most women will ask a lot of questions about you right away. Joking from time to time can be a playful way of spicing it up before answering some of her questions. For example if she asks, ‘What do you do?’, you respond, ‘I'm a can collector’ or ‘I work at pushing carts at Pathmark’, etc. Then, you can tell her the truth.
    
    
15. Tell fun little stories instead of bouncing around questions and she'll generally match one of your stories with hers. Get her number and answer a few more questions she asks on the phone. If she starts going into 'police officer mode' again, joke around with a playful voice and say 'Are you F.B.I.? Okay you've got me, I'm wanted.' Something silly like this is a joke, but also gets your point across. Think of yourself as if you are a mystery book. You don't want her knowing the ending, do you? She won't want to read it anymore if she already knows the ending.



16. Be vague.. Don't answer too many of her questions right away, turn it around on her, and make her answer her own questions. If she asks if you if live with your parents, own a house, or apartment, tell her maybe she'll find out one day, if she doesn't mess her chances up with you, in a playful tone. If you are not currently employed or you live with your parents and you're over 30, I suggest you try to beat around the bush a little until you’ve both have had some time to develop a strong connection and bonding for three or four weeks. Once she likes you, she won't mind as much, because now she's invested herself and we all want a return on our investments. Plus, most likely she cares about you now. This makes a huge difference in her reaction and whether she will stay or move on.
    
    
17. Jealousy Keeps Her On Her Toes. Most men fear telling a woman that they are talking to other women. Actually, this usually causes them to like you more. Jealously is just a very unpleasant way of finding out how much you actually like the person. Women compete for something that is in high demand. Now you don't want to sound like an insecure bragger, so do not go off talking about lots of other girls. There are subtle ways of letting her know you have options, and that other women are in the wings just waiting for her to mess it up with you. Subtle hints with women are best. You can drop subtle hints in a conversation every once in a while. Tell her: ‘My friend is coming over at 6:00 PM to make me dinner so it's best if you call after 9:00 PM.’ Now notice you didn't mention a female name, but she will assume that it is a woman that is making you dinner. How many men have their guy friends making dinner for them? She will mostly like feel a twinge of jealously from this and hence, you will drive up her attraction for you. Don't be afraid to let her know that you have lots of girls that you are friends with. If she tries telling you about a guy that likes her, to give you a taste of your own medicine, Do NOT REACT. Simply tell her that's nice, and ask if she'll promise to invite you to the wedding. By you not acting insecure and teasing her about this, again she will find you more attractive.