Although you may feel like there is something really wrong with you these are extremely common problems. Have no fear; you are by no means alone. There are literally millions of men suffering from these same problems all around the world. In fact, I use to suffer from all of these and if you can believe it, more. That's why once I figured out how this whole dating thing worked, I decided to become a dating coach.

As your dating coach, Jeff Magic, I'm here to figure out what is blocking you from being successful with women and dating, and help you fix it quickly. It may be one of the above issues, a variety of them, all of them, or something completely different.

Check this out. Here's one man's story. This client was handsome, tall, muscular, and had an extraordinary personality. However, he was consistently rejected from the time he started dating at the age of sixteen. I met him when he was twenty-five and corrected his problem within two minutes of meeting him. How, you might ask? Two words - bad breath. No one was ever honest enough with him to point out this flaw. When I met him, I encouraged him to go to the dentist. Turns out, he had halitosis, a condition that causes chronic bad breath. Once corrected, his success rate with women went through the roof. Happy ending. He is currently dating a gorgeous actress in Manhattan.

Whatever your challenge, I've dealt with it thousands of times and we will attack it until you become a champ in your love life. There is only one letter separating a champ from a chump. Ultimately, my goal is to pull out the best you that you have lurking inside; the side you have not discovered or developed due to low self-esteem, getting over fears, or any reason. I teach men not only how to develop bullet proof confidence but how to develop what I like to call a 'stand out' personality. So when you meet a woman, you 'stand out' above the rest of every other man she's met or is currently talking to or casually dating. I teach you how to be on the top of her 'I want to date this guy right now' list.

At some point in your life, you probably have said to yourself, 'What the heck is wrong with me?'. You may have received speeches from woman encouraging you 'not to worry; you're a nice guy', giving you a pat on the back. They advised you not to look for it because when 'you're looking for love it won't happen. It will just magically happen when you least expect it.'

Well, hate to break it to you, pal, but from her perspective, she is right. Men approach women. So her experience of the world is just walking down the street and, boom, she 'just happens to meet men magically all the time'. Does it make sense now why she might be giving you this horrible advice? Look, if she is fairly attractive she will get hit on anywhere from two to fifteen times a day on average depending on where she goes. If she is stunning, this number may be even higher. This is the way things are for her. This is how her life works. So according to women, fake Hollywood romantic comedies, and society, the whole scenario of you turning a corner, bumping into an attractive women, and knocking her books down is how dating works. The mating dance should be left to fate. For a man, nothing can be worse advice and furthest from the truth.

So, yes, we are men and we must be proactive in our dating lives. We are hunters by nature; not passive females. We must take the bull by the horns and introduce ourselves to women we want to meet. Not the most pleasant thought, but the truth. Actually, once you learn how to walk up and casually talk to women with bullet-proof confidence, it's a breeze. I know it seems much easier said than done.

Why do you need to develop confidence and social skills to the point of it being second nature to you? To walk up to a woman you find attractive and be able to effortlessly have a fun, playful, interesting conversation with and walk away with her number.Well, let's be real and look at our options for a minute. After high school and college your options of meeting women dramatically dwindle. Ask yourself, what options are you left with? Your dating resources are limited to work or through friends. That's not very promising if everyone at your job and all your friends' friends are married or have boyfriends. Many men find the only other way to meet women is at a bar or club, where they drink until they have enough courage to approach the woman they desire. They give it their best shot and usually don't get very far.

Does this scenario sound familiar to you?

'Hi, I'm John. I had to come over here and say that you're beautiful. What's your name? Where are you from? What do you do? Oh, that's cool. What else do you do for fun?'

The rest of the conversation entails you discussing your job and how much money you make, while doing your best to not allow her to see how nervous you are. You're not concentrating on the conversation; you're concentrating on how nice her breasts look. As the words are exiting your mouth, you're trying to building up the courage to get her number without getting rejected. If you don't receive her number, you stick your tail between your legs, feeling embarrassed and dejected, and put another wonderful blow to your confidence and ego that you're a loser.

Here are the personality and character traits you need to attract the woman of your dreams

o Confidence is the number one key that will attract women to you. I break down exactly what it is and how to develop it.

o Fun, you must be fun, it's the key to a woman's heart. It's absolutely neck and neck with confidence. Everyone wants to be around a playful guy. Women are no different. If you can show this quality from the moment you meet her, you will attract more women then you'll know what to do with.

o Masculinity- most women are extremely attracted to masculine men. It's this polar opposite that attracts them. Ask yourself a question. Why are you attracted to women? Because of their femininity. As men this turns us on. Word to the wise. The more attractive and feminine the women, the more masculine counterpart she will seek out.

o Interesting- Tell stories in a way that captivates her imagination and takes her there in her mind's eye. Be able to teach her new things. Give her new perspectives that make her think in ways she never would have if she had not meet you. Having a quality like this will make you stand out far above the average man.

o Dress in a unique way that portrays class and style. Pick a style that fits your age that allows you to stand out a bit but not to over the top. Enough to attract attention and say to everyone 'Hey, I'm guy with class and style'. Looking generic isn't going to help your love life. You don't have to be good looking, but you do have to look good. Nice haircut, cologne, a few shirts and pairs of pants, and shoes. Women check out shoes like you wouldn't believe. They're experts; they shop all the time and pay attention to details guys would never even consider.

I can promise you will not have consistent success with attracting women if you are missing any one of these qualities. The more you are missing, the more will strike out, especially with the super attractive women. They have so many men to choose from they will simply blow you off most of the time. It's natural to want to date a beautiful woman. It's not necessary for you to date a woman you're not that attracted to and settle because you think she's too pretty and out of your league. No woman is out of your league. In fact, the pretty women are actually easier to get when you know what type of attitudes on a man they respond to.

The art of dating is about having social skills and developing what I referred to before as 'stand out' personality where you shine in every social situation you find yourself in, whether you're at a bar, club, coffee shop, the mall, or even on the street. You will radiate a charm and glow that will be irresistible to women.

Each client wants something different. There is nothing I don't specialize in. If you're interested in dating stunning women of exceptional quality, I teach men exactly what they have to do in order to attract them. If you want a more modest looking gal, again, no problem. Learn how to have lots of choices because you have developed the confidence and social skills to meet women anytime, anywhere. This will allow you to have a girlfriend or wife if that is what you wish in a short period of time. When we get finished working together, you will absolutely be able to find the woman you're attracted to and like without the crippling fear you may feel right now of even the thought of approaching a woman you like. Whether you are eighteen or seventy, we will work together and quickly get you to the level you want for yourself.

Call me for a FREE 30 minute consultation. We'll figure out what's stopping you from achieving your dream of obtaining the woman you want and steer you onto the path of dating bliss.

Your coach,

Jeff Magic